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Your Money Trauma Is in Charge

Your Money Trauma Is in Charge

Beate Chelette fired her broker, sat down with her daughter to talk money, and went looking for the story underneath it: the one a child wrote and still runs. With private equity founder Nery Gomez as evidence that money can be energy rather than the purpose, she asks who is making your financial decisions. A toddler, a 7 year old, a teenager or an adult.

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What Story Are You Telling

What Story Are You Telling

Beate Chelette on the storytelling framework she teaches her granddaughter, and how the same four questions apply to rebuilding a business after catastrophic loss. Drawing on her conversation with Josh Elledge, she argues AI can outline your pitch but can’t do the personal, painstaking work of making it true.

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Can Clients Be Friends?

Can Clients Be Friends?

Beate Chelette asks whether clients can be friends, and traces the golden cage that keeps high earners trapped chasing more while their identity quietly becomes their job title. Drawing on her own story after the fire and her client Rachel Castro’s exit from corporate, she argues that change only happens when the pain of staying outweighs the fear of changing, and that letting go of what you built might be the only way to receive what was already yours.

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It’s Supposed to Get Crazy

It’s Supposed to Get Crazy

Beate Chelette on the breakdown she is living through right now, from house fires to hospital stays to the deepest, darkest family secrets finally surfacing. Drawing on her conversation with Steve Barton, she argues the chaos of a real breakdown is not the problem, and that the real work afterward is learning to receive instead of earning your way back.

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Does It Hurt? Good. Work With It.

Does It Hurt? Good. Work With It.

Beate Chelette shares why her insurance list keeps growing months after she declared the grief over, and what that has taught her about the business transformations she cannot rush either. A raw look at the breakdown, breakthrough, and breakout pattern from someone currently living inside it.

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Is There Really a Somewhat New Spiritual Movement?

Is There Really a Somewhat New Spiritual Movement?

The world has been optimizing the outside for so long that the pendulum had nowhere left to go but swing back. Beate Chelette writes about the war most founders are having with themselves, the concept of liminality, and why the spiritual undercurrent emerging in business right now is not a trend but is the only logical response to a world that has run out of external answers.

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You Will Always Carry the Wound. Stop Letting It Write the Narrative.

You Will Always Carry the Wound. Stop Letting It Write the Narrative.

Alice Kao was abandoned twice by her mother and still built six climbing gyms, raised millions from over 100 investors, and speaks to rooms of 900 people while the voice in her head tells her every single morning she is not good enough. Beate Chelette on why the wound never fully heals, why that is not the problem, and what it means to stop letting your story be the narrator. Transformation is always an inside job.

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I Feel Like An Idiot. And That’s On Me.

I Feel Like An Idiot. And That’s On Me.

What happens when twenty years of trust dissolves in a single phone call — and what it forced me to ask about trust and myself I Walked Into That Call Excited. We finally had time to tackle something we had been planning. I had a list. I was prepared. I was looking...

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You Are Doing Everything Right But Why Doesn’t It Feel Right?

You Are Doing Everything Right But Why Doesn’t It Feel Right?

When outer logic and inner knowing collide — and why the voice that makes no sense is the one worth following. I Had It All. And It Was Literally Crazy Making. I was 23. Photo editor at Elle Magazine in Germany. I had the job everyone wanted. The invites to every...

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We Are Still In It. And That Is The Truth Nobody Tells You About Rock Bottom.

We Are Still In It. And That Is The Truth Nobody Tells You About Rock Bottom.

A year after losing everything in the LA fires, I am not on the other side. I am still in the middle. And something unexpected is emerging. Chapter 1: The Year Nobody Prepares You For We came back to nothing. I do not mean that as a metaphor. I mean we landed from our...

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The Most Dangerous Thing You Believe Is The Thing You Never Question

The Most Dangerous Thing You Believe Is The Thing You Never Question

What a Harvard MBA and Former McKinsey Consultant Told Me That I Did Not Want To Hear — And Why I Invited Him On Anyway I have learned something after years of doing this work. And I see it every single day. We come to believe firmly what we believe in. That sounds...

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The Question Nobody Asked Me Until It Was Too Late

The Question Nobody Asked Me Until It Was Too Late

Why Every High Earner Is Driven By the Same Thing — And It Has Nothing To Do With Money For the longest time I believed that if I was just successful enough, I would get everything I wanted. My mother's love. Her appreciation. Her admiration. Her acknowledgement. I...

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You Can’t Shortcut the Inner Work — I Tried for Years

You Can’t Shortcut the Inner Work — I Tried for Years

What a Former Internet Marketer and an Ayahuasca Journey Taught Me About the Gap Between Strategy and Truth I had already done it once. Built a business from nothing. Scaled it. Sold it to Bill Gates. Proved it was possible. So when I started over I thought I knew how...

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When Your Body Stops You Because You Won’t Stop Yourself

When Your Body Stops You Because You Won’t Stop Yourself

What Acute Pancreatitis Taught Me About Identity, Output and the Belief I Still Haven't Fully Released I had been yellow for a while. Not metaphorically. Actually yellow. My skin. My eyes. My system was shutting down and sending every signal it had. Constant stomach...

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