The Moment Things Go Well — and Why That’s When Leadership Is Tested

The Moment Things Go Well — and Why That’s When Leadership Is Tested

When success invites relaxation There is an assumption many leaders carry without examining it: when things are going well, we can relax. Revenue is up, momentum is strong, and energy feels aligned. The effort feels earned, even deserved. It’s a moment that appears to...
The Question That Feels Natural — and Costs More Than We Realize

The Question That Feels Natural — and Costs More Than We Realize

“Why is this happening?” is often the first place the mind goes when control disappears. It sounds reasonable. Even intelligent. It feels like meaning-making. But what I’ve come to see — personally, professionally, and most recently through a conversation on my...
When the Body Interrupts the Narrative

When the Body Interrupts the Narrative

I thought the fire anniversary was enough. Some weeks arrive already carrying weight. Memory. Grief. A quiet accounting of everything that was lost and everything that somehow survived. I assumed that was the work of the week — to hold that, to move through it with...
2026 May Still Be a Trying Year — So Train Your Mind

2026 May Still Be a Trying Year — So Train Your Mind

People like to say the ones who win are the ones with the most resources. I’ve never been comfortable with that word. It feels competitive. Binary. Like life is something you dominate or lose. There is nothing in between. And sitting here in a hospital room after...
Wear Your Grandmother’s Pearls: Redesigning Success Before It Burns You Down

Wear Your Grandmother’s Pearls: Redesigning Success Before It Burns You Down

There’s a question I’ve been circling for years—long before the fire, before the losses, before the surrender. How do you build a legacy that works on the outside without destroying you on the inside? A business that creates money, freedom, and opportunity—without...

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